Are Adam4Adam.com Parties Right For You ?

The website that changed the way brothers meet each other has quickly become the Craigslist for anyone wishing to have a private play time with a few web buddies. But with the hundreds of postings being added weekly the question remains: Are the Parties Safe? , Can I Have a Great Time ? and Are Adam4Adam Parties Right for Me ? I will answer the questions in the easiest manner so that at the end of this article, you will be armed with the information that will help you make the best decision.

What is Adam4Adam ?

For those that are not familiar with the website, Adam4Adam is a web based chat system that allows people to send instant messages to other members in real time. They have hundreds of cities and thousands of profiles. Even smaller cities such as Raleigh can boast hundreds online nightly. But Adam4Adam has also become a vehicle for those looking to make some cash hosting parties and others that want to have the ultimate fantasy of a group session. Within every citiy, you can click on the parties link to view listings of people in your area that are posting ads with the hopes that you will come to what they have to offer.

Are the Parties Safe?

By all accounts yes. I have not known of anyone having any unsafe action happening as a result of a party posting. I have hosted many events under various promotions and can say that the majority of those that are posting are looking for a good time and are not trying to cause harm.

Can I Get Into the Party ?

Now this is where the glitter starts to come off of the gold. Adam4Adam has become one of the most negative websites for Big Men, Fems , Old white men and anyone that is not considered choice. You will find many parties that will specifically say that they are not looking for Fats or Fems or Whites. Others will be serotype for HIV + people. It is always best to read the invitation on the website carefully to make sure that you meet the requirements of the party because many promoters will turn you away at the door if you misrepresent yourself.

I had this same thing happen some time ago when I advertised for my Athletic Promotion and a guy came to the door that I couldn't tell if he even exercised. Not wanting to be mean, I let him enter, but those that were in attendance didn't engage him. The lesson here is to make sure that you are exactly what the party is asking for. Have a picture that you can send to the host and make sure current.

Are the Adam4Adam Parties Right for You ?

Yes. There is a party that caters to every type. Some are only looking for a few while others are trying to have half of the city in attendance and make the rent at the same time. Be sure that you know what the door fee is and have exact change. As a rule of thumb, I would suggest attending the events that charge. You will find that they are more professional and include amenities.

As the old adage goes, you do get what you are paying for. No one wants to drive to the location from out of town to find that the event was canceled. Make sure you show up if you RSVP. Trixx are for kids and your support of the party will guarantee that you will have another opportunity to play when the host throws another event.

Juan Diego , Founder